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For the time is come that judgment must begin at the house of God: and if it first begin at us, what shall the end be of them that obey not the gospel of God? -1 Peter 4:17

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The Homemaker's Helper

A Christian Homemaker's Priorities

  1. God - Pray. Read from the Bible daily. Live your life for Christ, and joy in the Lord always.

  2. Husband - Be kind to him, appreciate him, and never nag, or try to change him. Read and live the book Fascinating Womanhood.

  3. Children - Praise them for good deeds daily. Be consistent when discipline is needed. Provide steady structure, and a steady diet of love. Have a good attitude - little eyes are watching and learning

  4. Homemaking

A) Your appearance - make sure you look nice. Wear a pretty and modest dress, and head covering. Look your best every day, regardless if you plan to go somewhere or not. Make sure you are healthy - take care of your teeth, hair, skin, and figure.

B) Regular meals for you and your family - three healthy, square meals a day

C) A tidy house - even if you are behind on housework, you can still take five minutes to tidy up each room, which will make your home look clean and inviting.

D) Education and self improvement - homeschool/home educate your children, and don't forget to continue enriching yourself via reading good books. There are many books recommended on this website, and some of them are free. Take advantage of these.

Basic Daily Cleaning Routine

  • Tidy the house every morning, afternoon, and evening

  • Dust main living areas

  • Vacuum main living areas

  • Keep things picked up and put away

Thursday, June 21, 2012


Teaching Children to sit well in Church

I have my children sit with me in church. I do not utilize children's youth programs. I home school my children - I have taken their education into my hands. I follow that same line of thinking when it comes to church. I do not look down on anyone who likes youth programs, and sends their children to them, but I personally don't, and here's why.

Over the years, I have met many wonderful ladies online who also like to have their children sit with them in church. Some of these women are older than me, and some are young mothers, with very young children. Below are some tips that I can give you, which worked for my family. Use what you'd like, and throw out what you don't think will work for your family...

Seven Steps to Teaching Your Children how to Sit Well in Church

1. Your attitude and expectations make a big difference. This is the most important step of the seven. If you expect your children to fail, they just may fulfill your expectations. If you have a stressed attitude, being worried about them not sitting well, they will likely notice it, and respond with ansiness. Relax, take a deep breath, send a prayer to the Lord, sit down, and expect your children to sit nicely in church. Don't stress about it.

2. Have assigned seating arrangements. If you have more than one child, then plan which child is going to sit where in the pew, relative to you. If you have a particular child who has trouble sitting still, then make sure that child is right next to you. If you have a child who bothers your other children, then have that child next to you, on the other side, with you between them and their siblings. If you have an older child who is sitting fairly well in church, then you may be able to use them as a "divider," to separate little ones who may upset each other during services. Have the seating arrangements planned out before church, and quietly point out to each child where you want them to sit when you arrive in the sanctuary.

3. If you home school, then try doing it with ALL of your children together, at the same time. Make sure your other children are working quietly on assignments while you are working with a specific child. Insist that the children sit nicely, and quietly, while you are teaching. This helps to ingrain the good habit of sitting nicely and quietly when someone is speaking. Very young children and babies should sit up with part of home school, and then can be excused for naps.

4. A big mistake that many mothers make, is giving their children coloring books, drawing tablets, and toys to keep their children quiet and occupied during the sermon. If you do this, STOP. This teaches two negative things to your children. 1) That you don't think your child is able to sit nicely and quietly through a sermon, so you don't expect it of them (see step 1, above), and 2) It looks like you don't view the sermon important enough for your child to learn. Even toddlers can pick up on many key points of sermons. I can't tell you how many times I've heard my children tell parts of the sermon back to me, at age 2, with big smiles on their faces. Expect your children to sit quietly and nicely during the sermon, with nothing to do, but listen. Also, teach them to listen nicely - don't let them slump down, or look around the sanctuary. That is rude.

5. Let your children participate in church with you. This step ties in with steps 1 and 4. Expect that your children, no matter how young, are intelligent beings created by God, and are able to absorb and learn, even from a drawn out sermon. Make sure each child stands and sings when the congregation does. Help them learn how to use and follow along in the hymnals, as soon as they are able to read. Before that point, if there is enough hymnals in your pew, let your non-readers have hymnals as well, and let them pretend they are reading the music from it while singing. You can also take this opportunity to make sure your children know how to respect property. Make sure they don't draw on, rip, or ruin the hymnals. Make sure your children pray when the congregation prays, and stands and sits with everyone else. Children are to face forward, and not look at other children or people in the pew behind you. All your children should have their own Bibles. Non-readers can use picture Bibles. Have your children "follow along" in their Bibles during the sermon. Help the younger ones with full Bibles find the text being preached.

6. Each day, have church practice at home, until your children get good at it, and then just have practice a few times a week, or as needed. Line up some kitchen chairs like a pew, and have everyone sit in their assigned pew spots. Start by standing and singing a few hymns, and then move on to listening to a sermon. You can find free sermons to listen to online. Have your children sit nicely, and pay attention. Here is something to try: Have each of your children stand up, and pretend to preach, while you sit there, slouched down, arms crossed, and with a bored expression on your face. Ask your child how you think it makes Pastor feel, when he sees people looking bored when he preaches. Then, have your child pretend to preach again, but this time, sit up, look him in the eye, and smile. Discuss the golden rule with your children, and that just as when we speak, we want people to look interested, we should look interested and engaged when the pastor preaches.

7. While training your young children how to sit nicely in church, you may find that they become disruptive, and will need to be removed from service. When this happens, do NOT take them to a separate room, where they end up playing, and do not take them to the hall and let them run up and down the hall while you socialize. This rewards your child for behavior that they know was no good. Instead, take your child directly to the bathroom, and set them at a time out, staring at the most boring, blank wall in there. When their time out is over, tell them how you expect them to behave in church, then promptly walk them back into church, sit down, and expect your child to behave. It's important not to become angry, impatient, or upset when your child acts up and has to have a bathroom time out. Just be patient and calm, always expecting the best of your child, and it will happen. After a few to several times of having to stare at the bathroom wall when being disruptive in the sanctuary, the child will decide it's better to obey mama, and sit nicely in church.

When having lunch after church, discuss the sermon with your children. You can give rewards for those who can tell parts of the sermon back to you. You can make a game out of it, if you wish. Keep it fun and special. The Lord's Day is the most important day of the week. :-)


Build Your Foundation on the Rock of Salvation

"He is like a man which built an house, and digged deep, and laid the foundation on a rock: and when the flood arose, the stream beat vehemently upon that house, and could not shake it: for it was founded upon a rock. But he that heareth, and doeth not, is like a man that without a foundation built an house upon the earth; against which the stream did beat vehemently, and immediately it fell; and the ruin of that house was great." -Luke 6:48-49

"The LORD liveth; and blessed be my rock; and exalted be the God of the rock of my salvation." -2 Samuel 22:47

"And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free." -John 8:32

"Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me." -John 14:6

The terms "Christian" and "personal relationship with Jesus Christ" have been bantered around so much, that for many people, they have lost their original savor. What is a personal relationship with Jesus Christ? Is it going to church? Is it being a "good person?" Is it via doing certain rituals, or following certain traditions? No, it is so much simpler than that.

Jesus says:

"Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me." -Revelation 3:20

Let Jesus into your heart and life. Put your faith and trust in Him, and in Him alone.

Why did Jesus Christ come to this earth? He came to pay for our sins. Have you ever broken any of the Ten Commandments? Did you know that Jesus taught in the Sermon on the Mount that just looking at someone with lust in your heart is the same thing as committing adultery in your heart?

Many people will say I'm a good person. Sure, I've stolen a few paper clips in my time, and I've told some lies, but I've never killed anyone, so I'm good enough for heaven. Don't be so sure. Have you ever felt hatred toward someone? If so, then you are guilty of committing murder in your heart:

"Whosoever hateth his brother is a murderer: and ye know that no murderer hath eternal life abiding in him." -1 John 3:15

If you have stolen, lied, lusted after someone, hated someone, loved someone or something more than God, etc., then you have broken at least 5 of the Ten Commandments. Do you really think you'd make it to heaven? Not according to God's Word:

"Know ye not that the unrighteous {sinful} shall not inherit the kingdom of God {or go to heaven when they die}? Be not deceived: neither fornicators {sex outside of marriage, or pre-marital sex}, nor idolaters {loving something or someone more than you love God}, nor adulterers {physically, or in the heart}, nor effeminate {cross dressing}, nor abusers of themselves with mankind {homosexuality}, Nor thieves {even stealing a pen or paper clip makes you a thief}, nor covetous {inordinately desiring wealth or things}, nor drunkards, nor revilers {one who assails with abusive language}, nor extortioners {blackmail, or wresting anything from anyone via force}, shall inherit the kingdom of God." -1 Corinthians 6:9-10 {words in curly brackets are my notes}

But there is good news:

"And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God." -1 Corinthians 6:11

We are all sinners:

"For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;" -Romans 3:23

Even Mary, the woman chosen by God to be a vessel that would carry Jesus in her womb, was a sinner, and in need of a Saviour:

"And my spirit hath rejoiced in God my Saviour." - Mary said this in Luke 1:47. Only sinners need a Saviour, and Mary also accepted Jesus Christ as her Saviour.

We are all imperfect, fallible sinners:

"This then is the message which we have heard of him, and declare unto you, that God is light, and in him is no darkness at all. If we say that we have fellowship with him, and walk in darkness, we lie, and do not the truth: But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship one with another, and the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin. If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us." -1 John 1:5-8

The blood of Jesus Christ is what cleanses us from all sins. Jesus came to this earth to die to pay for our sins. You see, Leviticus tells us that 'the life is in the blood,' and that it takes spilt blood to atone for sin.

When we choose to truly believe in Jesus Christ as our Lord and Saviour, and to live our lives for Christ, then Christ's spilt blood cleanses us from our sins:

"Come now, and let us reason together, saith the LORD: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool." -Isaiah 1:18

Jesus tells us this:

"For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God." - Jesus said this, in John 3:16-18

Paul gives us a simple "step by step process" on how to be saved:

"That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed." -Romans 10:9-11

Jesus is our one and only mediator:

"For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus;" -1 Timothy 2:5

Jesus is our High Priest:

"Seeing then that we have a great high priest, that is passed into the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our profession. For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as we are, yet without sin." -Hebrews 4:14-15

We are to follow the Lord and the Bible, not traditions of man:

"But he answered and said unto them, Why do ye also transgress the commandment of God by your tradition?" -Matthew 15:3

Jesus is God:

"And without controversy great is the mystery of godliness: God was manifest in the flesh, justified in the Spirit, seen of angels, preached unto the Gentiles, believed on in the world, received up into glory." -1 Timothy 3:16

If Jesus isn't the Lord of your life, then I hope that you will let Him into your heart and life this very moment.

"But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." -Romans 5:8

Have you built your foundation on the Rock of Salvation?

Jesus is the way. If you would like to receive Jesus into your heart and life, then let Him know. Pray to the Lord, telling Him that you accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Saviour, and that you believe that Jesus died on the cross to pay the death penalty for your sins. Tell this to God in your own words, from your heart.

"For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord." -Romans 6:23

Believe, and Receive:

"In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise" -Ephesians 1:13

When you believe on Jesus Christ, you receive the Holy Spirit. You are sealed as a child of God.

If you have accepted Jesus Christ into your heart and life as your Lord and Saviour, and you believe that Jesus died on the cross in your place, to pay the death penalty for your sins, and that Christ rose from the dead three days later, and you are ready to let Him lead your life, and you will live for Him, then you are saved, and born again.

You are now a saved Child of God, with the Holy Spirit living within you. Dedicate your life to the Lord, and live for Him. Please get a King James Bible and turn to the Gospel of John. That is the fourth book in the New Testament. If you don't have a King James Bible, then you can read it for free, online - here.

After you've read the Gospel of John, go on to read Acts, and then Romans. These three books will bring you through the Gospel, the early church, and basic Christian doctrine. After you've read these three, then turn to the beginning of the New Testament, and read it all the way through. After that, read both the Old and New Testaments.

You should also follow the Lord and get baptized in water. A Believer's Baptism doesn't save you. Only faith in Christ saves you. A Believer's Baptism is an outward showing of your salvation. It symbolizes you being born again. When you are lowered under the water, it shows you dying to your old self, and when you are raised up out of the water, it symbolizes you being born again, as a new creature in Christ. This is called a Believer's Baptism, because, according to the Bible, a person is supposed to get baptized after they have believed on Christ. Anyone who was "baptized" before having faith in Christ just got wet - nothing more. You don't need to find a church to get baptized in. Any born again Christian can baptize you in any acceptable body of water - even a public swimming pool.

Find or start a good home church. Here is more information on Home Church, and why you should home church, or find one to join - HouseChurch.org. If you can't find or start a home church in your area, then look for a Family Integrated Church, an Independent Baptist church, or look in your phonebook for a nearby Baptist church.

Immerse yourself in the Bible. The Bible is God's love letter to you. It is also your Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth.

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